Reviving your sex life does not only entail the physical aspect of scheduled intercourse and kinky adventures. When you aspire to improve or revive your sex life, it means that deep in your heart, you want to bring back the flame of young passionate romance that you enjoyed in the early stages of your relationship.
We all have to face the truth that the honeymoon stage does not last long enough to get you through family crises, childbirth, and change of addresses, bills, and everything else in the real world. In these modern times, the woman enjoys a rolling career. Shortly after the marriage, you would surely go back to your work as if on autopilot.
That’s where it begins until you have children, who would further consume much of your time, energy, and patience. At the end of each day, your partner will have to understand the stress you have been through and save whatever is on his mind for later.
Sex can sound uninteresting, especially if you have been running on your toes all day, trying to balance your work, home, and self. If you cannot do it as often as he wished you would, the least you can do is be kind, generous, and loving.
Marriages turn sour because couples forget that they need to be kind to each other. Most of the time, the other person is neglected because you know that that person is tied to you via matrimony. Well, husbands/wives require more kindness than any other friends you know or anyone else for that matter. Trust and love are the foundations of a successful union. But how can you trust and love someone if he’s been unkind to you? Be kind and generous to your partner in terms of affection, attention, and praise. Let him/her know that despite the changes your union has experienced, you remain to be strongly bonded. Be generous with physical intimacy whenever possible, like gentle touches on the hand, a small pat, a warm embrace, and a brief lip-locking will do wonders for your relationship.
Never forget to remind your significant other of your love and devotion every day. Leave notes on each other’s workstation, send a brief but romantic email or text message, or buzz to say that you have thought of him/her today and ‘I love you.’ In times of distress, always encourage your partner of his/her winning characteristics to bring up the morale.
If you are not the mushy kind of person, you have to learn to be more positive and warm. Your relationship will benefit from it, and your partner will love you more for your kindness and generosity. Just remember, though, that being kind and generous is different from being a doormat. A doormat is a silly powerless person who lets people push him/her over. Being kind is exhibiting warmth and understanding and drives the relationship to positivity by respecting compromise.
